When you love yourself, you always win in love!
Who I Work With
I coach women worldwide who feel clingy, needy, insecure, and jealous, that tend to depend on their partner's validation to feel good about themselves and their relationship, and that are always on the alert whenever their partner is not around.
That is not how love is supposed to feel.
And chances are that you know that if you ended up on my website.
When you don't feel good in your relationship is because either
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you attracted someone in your life that doesn't treat you right and doesn't deserve your love or
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you expect your partner to fulfil needs that don't pertain to him.
Either way, the solution is one and pretty simple:
Love Yourself.
By loving ourselves, we ensure that
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we attract someone who deserves to be with the incredible human being that we are
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we meet our own needs, avoiding putting pressure on our partner to meet them and, consequently, a strain on our relationship
WHEN YOU LOVE YOURSELF, YOU ALWAYS WIN!
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how I help you
I help you acknowledge your worth and practice unconditional self-love because the love you experience in your relationship mirrors the love you give yourself. ​​
I give you a safe space to open up and release how you feel about yourself and your relationship without worrying about being judged.
​I put you in front of the tough questions to guide and elicit your inner reflections and help you gain clarity on how you feel and what you genuinely want away from any external influence.
I help you take control of your internal narrative and the meanings you give to what you are experiencing, as that influences your perceptions of reality and, as a result, your feelings.
I challenge any of your beliefs that aren't serving you well and that you have never questioned so you can choose new empowering beliefs that support you in what you want to achieve.
I help you cultivate a growth mindset that inspires you to evaluate all possibilities in the situation you are experiencing while encouraging you to take action on what is within your control.
​I keep you accountable for the actions you agreed to take for you to contribute to creating the romantic reality you long for.
​Last but not least, I get you used to celebrating your progress along the way so that you can show yourself how important and real that is to you.
my coaching program
Here is what can be available to you NOW:
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24 weekly online coaching sessions
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Customized exercises to prompt and reinforce new thinking
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Written support between calls (I got you covered!)
Ready to invest in yourself?​
50£ / session if paid in one solution
60£/ session if paid in monthly instalments
70£/ session if paid in weekly instalments
about me
As I have always been passionate about personal development and self-realization, certifying as a coach was my calling. But if you wonder why I decided to coach specifically women in relationships to feel confident by learning to love themselves first, it is because
I experienced what it means to love myself this little to be in desperate need of having someone else love you.
I learned the hard way that demanding someone else to fill a void that is not his responsibility to fill doesn't end well.
In fact, until I took responsibility for that void, I did not feel special without and with my partner by my side.
I know how crap you feel when he doesn't compliment you or he doesn't notice your haircut or a new dress.
I know how the doubt that he doesn't love you as much as you do and could leave you eats you;
I know what you mean when you say you feel like you lost touch with your feelings, wants and needs, as what he feels, wants, and needs has become the only thing that matters.
I have been there too, and I hated it.
It was only when I decided to let go of what I thought I knew about love and happiness that I could welcome a new truth: to create the healthy relationship we deserve, we need to work, and that work starts with ourselves.
This transformation has been so eye-opening and powerful to me that I decided to show you the way and walk it with you as your Coach.
about my certifications
Want to know whose hands you are in?
On top of the tons of books, ebooks, audiobooks and podcasts I learn from every day, I've gone through some cool certifications!
Certifications:
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Life Coach Certification by The Clique Coaching Academy
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Meditation Practitioner/Teacher by The Priority Academy Accredited by Complementary Therapists Accredited Association (CTAA)
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CBT Cognitive Behaviour Life Coach Certification Accredited by Continuing Professional Development Standards Agency
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Forgiveness Life Coach Certification by Transformation Academy
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Self-Care Coach Certification by Transformation Academy
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Extra Courses:
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Relationship Coaching by the Course Instructor Peggy Guglielmino
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Manifest Love Relationships: Law of Attraction Life Coaching by Chris Spink
testimonials
Claire, 28
“I have only done individual coaching sessions with Alexia. Her positive energy is contageous. Her questions and prompts have helped me considered new perspectives whenever I felt stuck. She makes me feel safe and understood every time I speak with her."
Marina, 39
"I liked that every session was well-structured and had a specific goal. I liked the meditation performed in each session on top of guided exercises, and also the tasks she'd give me after each session to continue to reflect on what was uncovered during the coaching session, and achieve more progress. Thanks to Alexia and her program my priorities have now shifted. I discovered what really matters to me and I gave myself permission to make time for it."
Sally, 25
"What I liked the most about Alexia was her natural desire to listen to me, how she compassionately challenged me and how she would hold me accountable for what we agreed I'd do following our coaching sessions. This is exactly why I recommend having a coach!"
remember,
​One more day that passes by without choosing to do something about how you feel is one more day spent feeling the way you feel.
How many days need to pass by before we look back and realise we could have taken action sooner?
Life is quick. You know that. It seemed yesterday that you began your relationship with your partner, but in a snap of fingers, you got catapulted here in the present time, feeling how you feel.
And in between, how much time have you spent worrying about your partner's feelings for you, feeling uncomfortable whenever he is not with you, overanalysing his behaviours and comments, silencing your needs to keep him to stay with you, and longing for just one more nod of approval?
Let me tell you this. You are NOT powerless in front of your relationship, even if you might feel like it.
You CAN choose. And you ARE choosing.
Even if it might feel like you are doing nothing about your feelings, you are STILL choosing. You ARE choosing to continue to feel the way you feel.
I know you do this because you care about him, and you feel the only way to show him this is by literally dedicating ALL of your time, energy and thoughts to him, but how is that working out for you?
And for him?
That's right. That's because if we prioritise our partner's happiness, forgetting about ours, we start feeling unfulfilled and become overly reliant on him to make us happy, as we don't have any time, energy and thoughts left to do that. We gave them all to our partner!
How do you think that makes him feel?
How does that make YOU feel?
Your love life can only benefit from you loving yourself unconditionally.
My beautiful dear, it's time you choose yourself.
let's connect!
Any questions? Send me a message!
